We hear a lot about what we deserve. Most of us certainly deserve more in our lives than we currently have in one form or another, right? I mean, we work hard, we struggle, we take care of our families. Most busy women spend all their time and energy doing for others. Heck, that's the key to my success in business! I give busy women an excuse to relax, because they often feel guilting spending any time or energy on themselves. We certainly need to remember to take care of ourselves. We've all heard if you don't take care of you, you'll be less able to take care of those you love, right?

Here's the rub, here's the danger. When we move to a sense of entitlement and begin to use this very real need as an excuse to avoid doing things that we really need to do. "I've worked hard all day, I'm really tired. I deserve to spend the evening watching a movie  instead of making calls to build my business." "I've eaten healthy all week, I owe it to myself to indulge in a day of
junk food." We all truly deserve little treats, little breaks, special perks. We really do need to take good care of ourselves, get proper rest and sometimes relax to stay healthy both physically and mentally but we can't take it too far.

Like everything else in life, it is crucial that we find a balance between taking care of ourselves and buying into a dangerous sense of entitlement where we are "owed" things to make up for our struggles.
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Shannon Bednowicz
Unit Leader Future Burning For You Unit
RVP Future Take Hold of the Flame Region
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